A speech clocking in at 40 minutes by the time stamp data on our camreas still holds the longest wedding toast to date.

Giving a toast at a wedding is an honor and a great opportunity to celebrate the happy couple. However, it can also be nerve-wracking to stand in front of a crowd and speak. To ensure that your toast is well-received, here are 5 tips to keep in mind. 

Keep it short: A good toast should be between two and four minutes. Any longer and you may lose guests interest.  Really, they could pass out from dehydration or starvation. ; )

Practice your delivery: Rehearse your toast before the wedding to make sure you feel comfortable with the delivery. Speak in front of friends or family and have them assist you in any tweaks you need to make. 

Personalize it: Share a personal story about the couple that showcases their unique relationship. When toasts are about one or the other of the couple it really falls short as to what the moment is all about. The couple deserve to be the focus. 

Avoid inside jokes: While it may be temping to tell a funny story that only you and the couple know, it's important to remember that not all guests will be in on the joke. 

End the toast with: Raise your glass and invite guests to do the same in honor of the happy couple. This might be a time to share a quote about marriage or their future together. 

By following these tips you will be able to deliver a toast that is heartfelt and well received by the couple and their guests. Remember the most important thing is to speak from the heart and help the couple celebrate their special day. 

Peace & Love,

Melisa